The importance of being present this season

December 13, 2023

By Shannon Roh

A friend once asked me, “What are you GIVING this Christmas?”
Honestly, the question caught me off guard. We are often asked what we want for Christmas, but focusing on what we are giving is a much better representation of the true meaning of Christmas. This simple twist on the usual question makes all the difference in how we exude a spirit of joyful giving. St. Paul reminds us that “…God loves a cheerful giver” -2 Corinthians 9:7.
As we think about what we are giving don’t forget that Advent is a time to reflect, repent and prepare our hearts and souls for the coming of Christ at Christmas and at the end of time.
Preparing, shopping, wrapping and striving for Pinterest perfect decorations can quickly take the joy out of the season. If we prepare everything without preparing a manger for baby Jesus in our lives, then our preparations are in vain.
In this busy season it is important to slow down and be present. Embrace every opportunity to spend quality time with loved ones. Remember that our presence is a gift, that is why it is called a present! We are called to be present to God in prayer. “Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. In all circumstances, give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).
Reflecting on what we are giving rather than our wants or needs also helps us answer God’s call to give generously. The Bible tells us, “When you give, give generously and not with ill will; for the Lord, your God, will bless you for this in all your works and undertakings” (Deuteronomy 15:10).
Christmas is just a week away. While we check our list twice, let’s remember the tradition of gift giving at Christmas came from the gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh given to the infant Jesus by the three Kings. I encourage you to embrace the spirit of giving this Christmas. We have all received the ultimate gift from God himself, salvation. I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas!
“As each one has received a gift, us it to serve one another as good stewards of God’s varied grace” (1 Peter 4:10).
— Shannon Roh is the Executive Director of the Office of Development and Stewardship for the Archdiocese of Mobile.